My personal journey as an infertility survivor, battling endometriosis, recurrent pregnancy loss and a balanced translocation. Trying to help others on their journey.
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
What's Happening: Endometriosis Awareness Month
We are three days away from March, the start of Endometriosis Awareness Month. There are a lot of amazing Education and Advocacy events near and far for patients to participate in. Even if you cannot travel for these events, there are ways you can participate!
Endometriosis Foundation of America March 7-8
The EFA is a non-profit founded by Dr. Tamer Seckin and PadmaLakshmi to improve the lives of endometriosis patients through education, awareness and research. They host a weekend every year that brings patients, doctors and celebrities together to raise awareness for endometriosis.
Medical Conference March 7: The EFA has been holding a medical conference annually for the past five years in New York City. Every year they bring many experts from around the world to come to this conference and talk about the latest studies and best medical practices related to the diagnosis and treatment of endometriosis. Some of the topics being explored this year are, "Endometriosis and Ovarian Cancer: is there a connection?", "Robotics vs. Conventional Laparoscopy" and "Tackling Human Complex Diseases: A Journey from Autoimmunity to Endometriosis." This event is geared toward medical professionals, but patients are welcome to attend and can register for FREE here.
The Blossom Ball March 7: The Blossom Ball is a fun event that has been held every year for the past five years. It is one of the main fundraisers for the EFA. Celebrities such as Susan Sarandon, Whoopi Goldberg and Tyra Banks amongst others, have attended in the past. Tickets for the event can be purchased here.
Patient Day: Knowing that not all patients will be able to afford to go to the ball or be able to take off of work to attend the Medical Conference, the EFA holds a free Patient Day on Saturday March 8. The theme of this patient day is, "Outsmarting Endo: A Multi-disciplinary collaboration for women and their loved ones." From 10am-4pm, patients will listen to a panel of experts present on relevant topics related to endometriosis. My notes from last years conference can be found here. Patients can register here.
If you cannot attend these events have no fear! I will be taking great notes throughout the conferences and will post them here. Also, follow the EFA on twitter to get live tweets from the event. The EFA also has on their websites past videos from previous conferences and will post the videos from this year as well. If you are interested in helping support their teen education programs you can "Check the Box" to donate to Teen Education on your tax form and the EFA teen education program will benefit.
The Million Women March for Endometriosis March 13
The goals of the Endomarch are to empower, educate and effect change. Women from all over the country and all over the world are coming together to gain the attention and promote awareness and education for what is often called "the invisible disease." Patients and their loved ones are traveling to Washington D.C. to gather on the National Mall to support the efforts of the Endomarch. The event is free and includes all meals for the day. It was just announced that Sheryl Crowe will be performing that day. The itinerary for the day looks really exciting and you can register here.
If you cannot make it to Washington D.C. that day have no fear, there may be an event happing happening close to you. Contact your Endomarch State Representative to see what may be happening in your neighborhood. Also if you want you can be a virtual marcher and be matched up with someone who will march for you on that day in D.C. register here! Also any tweets made with the hashtag #endomarch2014 will be shown on the jumbotron tv live at the event! Another way to support the Endomarch and make a difference from home is to write a letter to your local and state representative making them aware of endometriosis and asking for their support in imperative to promote change. You can also create a flash mob video for awareness.
I am working with Endo Warriors this month to bring discounted mental health counseling to endometriosis patients. Part of the session fees will be donated to Endo Warriors. Endo Warriors are also holding events in March, to learn more about what they are doing, follow them on facebook.
These are just some of the amazing ways to participate in Endometriosis Awareness Month. There are even smaller ways, Change your facebook profile to yellow, send an email out to your friends about endometriosis, ask your local church or civic group if you can speak at a meeting about the disease or do something simple, like wearing a yellow ribbon on your jacket. Every little bit helps! If you have any questions about any of these events you can contact me CaseyBerna@gmail.com.
Sunday, February 23, 2014
Week 6: Blogging for Endomarch 2014: For Future Generations
I cannot believe we are already in Week 6 of Blogging for Endomarch. The Million Women March for Endometriosis will be here before we know it!
This week's question is: Why is it important for the world to recognize endometriosis?
Since a picture is worth a thousand words, I recruited my daughter to help me.
This week's question is: Why is it important for the world to recognize endometriosis?
Since a picture is worth a thousand words, I recruited my daughter to help me.
Week 5: Blogging for Endomarch, Wake up Medical Community
Week 5 of Blogging for Endomarch: Pick
one of the goals of the march and write about how it would change the lives of
endometriosis patients.
All of the goals of the Endomarch are amazing. I picked
the below goal to write about:
• To educate and
train members of the medical community, in order to promote early detection and
improved treatment
Every
time I go for my yearly gynecological visit, the doctor checks my breast for
lumps and does a pap smear on me to make sure I do not have any pre-cancerous cervical
lesions or early cervical cancer findings. In the past, I have had concerning
breast lumps found. I was immediately referred to a breast care and surgeon
specialist. I have never had an abnormal pap smear, but friends who have had
concerning results were advised to have follow-up testing and were treated with
appropriate care and follow up. So why when I told my gynecologist about my
horribly, painful periods, she just told me I had a low pain tolerance and dismissed
me?
Here
is what she should have done. I am so sorry to hear you are experiencing pain.
Let me ask you some questions:
1)
Do you have
pain any other time in your cycle or is it mainly during your period? I would
have told her, “I also have tremendous pain during ovulation.”
2)
Do you have
any digestive symptoms, like constipation or diarrhea? Do you notice these
symptoms to get worse during certain time of your cycle? I would have told her.
“Yes, I have horrible diarrhea at the onset of and during my period.”
3)
Do you have
any urinary symptoms such as frequent urination or frequent UTI’s especially
during different times in your cycle? I would have told her, “I suffer from
both of these things.”
4)
Do you have
pain during intercourse? When I first started having my symptoms I wasn’t having
intercourse, but I would have told her, “When you put the speculum in my vagina,
I want to cry out in pain.”
5)
Do you find
that certain foods trigger your symptoms or make them worse? I would have said, “Yes, gluten and dairy
often make me feel worse.”
6)
Do you have
any back or leg pain related to your cycle? I would have said no at the time,
but I later developed this pain.
7)
Do you feel
more fatigued during your period or other times in your cycle? I would have
told her, “Yes I feel extremely fatigued right before and during the first few
days of my cycle.”
8)
Does any
over the counter pain medicines bring you any relief? I would have said, “No, no
they do not.”
9)
Does anyone
is your family have a history of endometriosis or any notable gynecological
occurrences? I would have said, “Yes, my mom had very painful periods and miscarriages.”
10) I then wish my doctor would have said, “Based
on your painful periods alone, I would have sent you to get checked out by an
excision specialist for more testing. But you seem to have many symptoms of
endometriosis. I am going to refer you to a specialist to get further testing
if that’s okay?”
THESE are
the conversations that need to be occurring in the offices of gynecologists and
reproductive endocrinologists everywhere. This conversation also needs to start
happening in the offices of gastroenterologists, immunologists, neurologists
and family practitioners. This especially needs to be going on in pediatric
offices when young teenagers are first getting their periods and having pain.
Instead, my doctor shamed me into thinking I
was less of a woman because I couldn’t handle my painful periods because I had
a low pain tolerance. Instead my gastroenterologist told me I had irritable
bowel syndrome caused by anxiety. Wouldn’t you be anxious too if you were
worried about having diarrhea all the time?
It is time
to wake up medical community and start recognizing endometriosis and helping
women with this invisible illness, the 1 out ten.
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Week 4 for Blogging for Endomarch: Interview with fellow marcher Melanie
Week 4 for Blogging for Endomarch: Interview
someone you know who is going to the march and post the interview.
I have interviewed my Endosister Melanie from Long
Island, New York. She and her husband are heading to the March. Melanie is a
staple in the Endometriosis Twitter Community. You can learn even more about
Melanie’s struggle with endometriosis and infertility on her wonderful blog:
·
When Melanie first diagnosed with endometriosis?
Melanie was officially diagnosed with endometriosis in June of 2010.
·
How many surgeries have you had so far for
endometriosis? Melanie has had 7 surgeries for endometriosis.
·
Why are you attending the MWMFE? Melanie is
attending the MWMFE so that the community can come together and educate
everyone else in the world who does not know about endometriosis. She also
hopes this will help find a cure for those women diagnosed in future
generations.
·
What do you wish everyone knew about
endometriosis? Melanie wishes everyone knew that endometriosis is NOT just a
once a month occurrence. Endometriosis is a life changer. Melanie says, “I am
not the same person I was before my struggle with endometriosis. It can take a
lot away from you.”
·
Did you know what endometriosis was BEFORE you
were diagnosed or AFTER? Melanie had heard about endometriosis before she was
diagnosed. She had two friends that had been diagnosed with endometriosis. But
Melanie admits, “I did not know the extent of it.”
·
What frustrates you the most about
endometriosis? Melanie exclaims, “Everything!” frustrates her about
endometriosis. Melanie spoke a lot about how it is unforgivable that doctors
who treat patients with endometriosis are not mandated to go for continuing
education to be aware of the latest and most effective treatments for the
disease. It exasperates Melanie that doctors that practice near her do not even
like to be questioned by self-educated patients. She feels that so many women
have endometriosis, 1 in 10, and most of the medical community does not even
make an effort to stay on top of the best way to care for a patient.
·
What is a common misconception people have about
endometriosis? Melanie feels that most people are not aware that the pain from
endometriosis can come at any time, and often women with endometriosis are in
pain every day.
·
How has endometriosis affected your life in a
negative way? Melanie describes how her confidence has been greatly affected by
endometriosis. Growing up she felt certain of many things in her future, one of
which was becoming a mother. Now endometriosis has taken a lot of things away
from her, including having biological children. Melanie states that she is
working on her self-confidence and it is slowly coming back.
·
Who in your life has been the most supportive of
your battle with endometriosis? Melanie feels that her husband and her parents
have been most supportive to her during her battle with endometriosis. Both of
them have supported her emotionally and financially. She feels that her husband is her best friend
and her rock.
·
How has having endosisters in your life affected
you in a positive way? Melanie is extremely grateful for her endosisters,
especially the ones from Twitter! Melanie gushed, “They are life savers! Mostly
everyone thinks we are crazy. But they know exactly what I am talking about all
the time!” She feels that they are always there for her, especially through the
tough times.
·
If you could say something directly to medical
professionals about endometriosis what would you say to them? Melanie pleads
with doctors to get better diagnostic tools and treatments for endometriosis.
She implores doctors to continue their education and stay on top of the latest
treatments. She also wants excision surgeons to start taking insurance so that
those who do not have the monetary means can afford treatment.
·
Which body parts were most damaged by your
endometriosis? Almost everything in Melanie’s pelvic cavity has been impacted
by her endometriosis. Melanie’s tubes are gone and her ovaries and uterus are
in bad shape. Her culdesac has been obliterated and her intestines have never
been the same since endometriosis has been found on them. Her ureters and
bladder are also affected. She also lives with constant heart burn and acid
reflux.
·
If you could describe the pain caused from
endometriosis…..what would you say? Melanie feels that there is not only
physical, but emotional and mental agony from this disease. But if she could
describe the physical pain she said, “It feels like being stabbed in the
vagina, kicked in the back and that someone is wringing out her uterus, like a
wet towel.”
I am so grateful Melanie spent her
lunch hour speaking with me to raise awareness for the MWMFE. She is a fighter
and a survivor and it was amazing speaking with her. Make sure to check out herblog!
Thursday, February 13, 2014
A podcast with Zen Fertility: Spreading Endometriosis Awareness
I had the absolute pleasure of speaking with Julie Chang of Zen Fertility this past week. She is a lovely person to speak with and she has an incredible passion for helping women in the infertility community. We talked about endometriosis, one of my favorite topics, especially with March, Endometriosis Awareness Month, around the corner. We also talked a little bit about my own journey with infertility, to include my road to getting diagnosed with my translocation and my history of miscarriages.
http://zenfertility.com/blog/2014/2/12/podcast-casey-berna-endometriosis-patient-counselor-and-advocate
http://zenfertility.com/blog/2014/2/12/podcast-casey-berna-endometriosis-patient-counselor-and-advocate
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